HOW MANY PEOPLE HAVE YOU MET IN PERSON FROM AFF?  

A1LOVER2004 47M  
234 posts
1/23/2018 7:48 am
HOW MANY PEOPLE HAVE YOU MET IN PERSON FROM AFF?

I HAVE BEEN A MEMBER SINCE 2004 AND I HAVE MET MANY PEOPLE ON HERE IN PERSON....OVER 100(not always sexual) EASILY. AND I KNOW THAT'S NOT THE NORM, BUT I'M CURIOS AS TO WHAT EVERYONE ELSE IS DOING. WHAT DETERMINES IF YOU ARE GOING TO MEET SOMEONE?
0-3
4-7
8-12
13-18
20+
NOT HERE TO MEET ANYONE


Bmanus465 65M
19 posts
2/19/2018 2:35 pm

I have meet 8 people of which 3 women and 1 man were regulars. The others were 1 time things. I seem to have a way with communication. I have a lot of CDs that want me. post 4065117


BigLoads500 36M
12 posts
2/19/2018 6:02 am

I have met 7 from the site. Everyone was on the same page as a one time hook up. Although, I have seen a couple more than once.


pussycrush4fun 47M
2 posts
2/18/2018 4:04 pm

ZERO unfortunately


PeterMoon1964 53M
11 posts
2/17/2018 8:33 pm

No one yet. But still trying


uncutfunguy66 66M
4 posts
2/15/2018 8:23 am

I made my first hook up here, Got me hooked on cock..


HornyBSlut 55T  
23 posts
2/15/2018 4:59 am

And I sucked every one of them dry!


1seeking1 52F  
1368 posts
2/13/2018 1:42 pm

When i first joined had lots of coffee meets, Quickly learned too many liars, fakes and flakes. Have met some great people, they seem rare. Could be so much better if everyone was honest and had recent pics.


bigtime69666 36M
48 posts
2/13/2018 1:50 am

2.F both were flakey after one date. wanted 2nd dates but would always cancel lol. couples about the same thing.

hard weeding threw all the fakes and groups pretending to be female lol


spewonme2 53F  
12 posts
2/12/2018 8:10 pm

I've been on here since 2006 and I've met over 100 easily, not just for sex. We've met at meet and greet (dances, picnics, just hanging out), along with dates and the usual hookups.


jnt4bifun 54M/54F  
1 post
2/12/2018 4:43 pm

We have met with 6 guys from here. 4 were great, got together a bunch more times for fun. One she said lets get him off and get him out ! and another, it didn't even start.


panther0124 49M
4 posts
2/11/2018 12:04 pm

I agree


nicelipss66 41F  
22087 posts
2/10/2018 10:21 am

I have met with a bunch of guys. I actually have great friends that I met in person from here. is been years and we remain in touch. I sincerely can't complaint. Good site and Good meetings.

Come inside and pick one of the Pictures. Here is the LINK: 3 PICTURES Pick One happyf;


A1LOVER2004 replies on 2/10/2018 6:25 pm:
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH HAVING GOOD FRIENDS. I ALSO KEEP IN TOUCH WITH MANY THAT I MET THRU Adult Dating One.

A1LOVER2004 47M  
131 posts
2/8/2018 9:20 pm

IT'S CRAZY THAT THERE IS SUCH A WIDE SCOPE OF SUCCESS AND FAILURE HERE. OBVIOUSLY THE WOME DO MUCH BETTER BECAUSE MEN OUT NUMBER THEM 10 TO 1. THEY BASICALLY HAVE THEIR CHOICE. BUT AS FAR AS MEN GOES IT SEEMS LIKE THERE ARE A FEW THINGS THAT KEEP THEM FROM MEETING PEOPLE.
1. AGE
2. LOCATION
3. DISTANCE
4. NO PERSISTANCE
5. UNREALISTIC

I HAVE MET OVER 100 BUT I ALSO PROBABLY CONTACTED 50,000+ IN THAT PROCESS. THIS PLACE ISN'T LIKE DOMINOE'S PIZZA. YOU CAN'T JUST PUT IN YOUR ORDER AND 30 MINUTES LATER SHE ARRIVES AT YOUR DOOR...GOTTA PUT IN A LITTLE WORK....DON'T GIVE UP FELLAS!!!


my_rc51 52M  
1 post
2/8/2018 4:41 pm

I've met a couple ladies on here, they were all enjoyable to be with, still looking for the right one. She has to be out there somewhere


50sRfabulous 58M  
4 posts
2/8/2018 5:14 am

Been on and off this site for years (mostly off). It rare that you meet some but I have met a few. My guestimate is that only 5% of my messages ever got returned. The women that are real, only seem to blog and not meet.


rm_bglfd123 61M/58F  
10 posts
2/7/2018 5:05 pm

We've met a couple which was great and four guys, three were great but turned into flakes one was a joke all he did was talk about fishing. My wife sat across from him and pulled the top of her dress down and showed him her titties, he said nice and went back to talking bout fishing then she lifted her dress spread her legs and played with her pussy, she even came spraying all over the carpet. He said nice and you guessed it, fishing.
Most people on this site are flakes so go as far as making a date then never show up


Saranghae2 45F  
201 posts
2/7/2018 3:58 pm

i lost count...

When I'm good, I'm great, but when I'm bad, I'm even better...


nebman67 50M  
2 posts
2/7/2018 12:35 pm

Me a couple early on, anymore people set something up and then just dont show up. Really starting to think I did something wrong with my profile.


BondageHR 50M
8 posts
2/6/2018 2:50 pm

I think that depends on gender! Girls must have more contact with Boys that Boys with Girls.
I'm at the average of 4 - 7


blqberri69 49F  
51 posts
2/6/2018 12:09 pm

Met several, Only a couple of them are worth mentioning You know who you are...


Suppletitties 57M
138 posts
2/6/2018 11:27 am

I joined the site in 2002, people were very different then and you had much more access to them using all the tools. The only reason you paid was to see pictures otherwise you freely communicated with people and people were not as full of shit. I think the better question is of the people you've met how many do you still keep in touch with or have sex with still.

Now I've in touch with more than ten people over the years I I still have regular sexual contact with over 60% of those people,,,,,,,,and that speaks to how people were then versus now on the internet.


damn20002 67M  
1 post
2/6/2018 11:07 am

there's not many real people on here.


wettighttussy 55F  
1 post
2/6/2018 10:34 am

I met 2 men for sex and a few i wasn't attracted to at all but, we laughed joked no hard feelings. I have to at least fibe first, communication before sex ever happens.


ryks85 32M
4 posts
2/6/2018 9:04 am

It used to be much easier to meet new people on here. They have really limited your ability if you are not a paying member...


CollNels1 42F
1 post
2/6/2018 7:51 am

I am 41 married white female and I joined a year ago and I have met 3 different guys here for sex ! I’m shocked I ever met first guy at hotel! But I enjoyed everybody, little nerve racking but worth it


Dablock9 40M
20 posts
2/6/2018 4:38 am

I've met a few, it was ok. Just hard to communicate on this site without paying. The IM sucks


gandchodh 33M
57 posts
2/6/2018 1:39 am

I met 20 frm this site n most of are money seeker n cheater nt fr real...


Culver37 50M  
22 posts
2/6/2018 1:26 am

I've met over 20 in the last ten years or so, which is many more than I thought I ever would. Had many good times but very long dry periods in between. But met some really nice wonderful girls along the way. Believe it or not, there are some normal decent people on here.


curiousguy347 60M  
3 posts
2/5/2018 10:18 pm

Over 15 yrs only one meeting,just some lite touching.Agreed to meet for a real sex session.End contact nothing since 2 months.


EducatedMiss 53F  
16 posts
2/5/2018 10:03 am

Ive met mostly on other sites.But in all I have had fun and laughs.


mkranch 57M/58F  
4 posts
2/5/2018 4:24 am

I / we have met a few very nice people, played and had alot of fun.
Not anyone steady to have a LTR for play friends, lots of flakes and guys that just want to use us and not reciprocate.
It's has been alot of fun and we both have learned alot.


McDream_me 56M  
23 posts
2/4/2018 8:02 pm

somewhere around 15 or so. I have made some nice friends here. There's a whole group that are a little too far away, I'd say 25 more that would meet me with no hesitation on either of our parts.
Most have been friends in the chat rooms.


goodpoke 59M
10 posts
2/4/2018 7:43 pm

Not a single one, not even close despite using different profiles and styles over the years. I just use this place as a joke for light entertainment now. Just way too fakes and time wasters.


ltrskr 69M  
2357 posts
2/4/2018 2:39 pm

Over the years I have actually met quite a few, had sex with very few, most meetings have ended with just drinks!
The best one I met had a blood clot on the brain and passed away!

"Onward thru the fog!"


7inchwolves 31M
22 posts
2/4/2018 12:40 pm

there too many fakes


longtallyorkyboy 32M  
3 posts
2/4/2018 9:57 am

13 meets (involving sex in some form), couple of hundred conversations and messages exchanged.


shnickie4u 58M
17 posts
2/4/2018 4:36 am

2 couples and SF. Lots of fun over the course of several 'meatings'.


justlaughanyway 49M  
2 posts
2/4/2018 4:11 am

I've met quite a few , a dozen or more.... More importantly ,I met THE ONE. I never should have let her get away. She was beautiful and sexy and smart... and I was stupid and shallow ... I miss you Sherryl...


golosa1115 56F
1064 posts
2/4/2018 12:00 am

I've met about a dozen. I've have met more than once with most and through a few years with a couple of them. I get all hyped about hooking up, but its like a sweet/sour emotion because even though I love sex at my age I was hoping to meet the ONE whether a FWB or a fuck buddy. I feel I am more devious when I'm with someone that I feel safe. Someone that's not going to give me herpes if I kissed them or crabs if I didn't shave. I would be able to enjoy a 69 w/o being tormented that I'm taking something that I am going to lament later. ppl say get tested but it seems man believe that if they fuck someone 2 days ago w/o protection or gave oral sex that they cant share whatever they got infected with to the person they fuck later that night. Its true if they got tested that same day after sex its a huge possibility that it will not show on the test results. Why else would they not mention the recent fucks but say they got tested within the last 6 months. FUCK RESPONSIBILY


A1LOVER2004 replies on 2/5/2018 2:10 pm:
I AGREE....GOT TO STAY SAFE NO MATTER WHERE YOU MEET PEOPLE, INTERNET OR IN PERSON.

jstageek 40M
177 posts
2/3/2018 11:37 pm

I have chatted with a few ladies in my time here. I've also had the pleasure of making friends with a couple of them. Yet, I've only met 3 in person. And, only one of them has resulted in actual play.


slowone40 48M
7 posts
2/3/2018 8:19 pm

I've met about 10 or so people on here and not for just sex just had a good time.


toy20666 60M
74 posts
2/3/2018 7:33 pm

Yes I have met about people from this site, I hope to meet more


RUup4aTreat 50M  
1 post
2/3/2018 5:31 pm

Meet 1 since 2012 and their profile picture was from 40 yrs ago ! So now it's live video before we meet or NO chance and blocked from seeing my profile.


719dre 54M  
1 post
2/3/2018 12:20 pm

I have been associated with this site for the last 20 years. I cannot put a number on the people I have met. There is a lot of email tag associated with this site. But what I can say is that the people that I have met have been very sexual, and I have had some great sex with this site. Hasn't been a waste of money at all for me!


absolutelyiwould 73M/72F  
60 posts
2/3/2018 6:45 am

We have met many couples but more single guys as we enjoy mfm's. As we have gotten older the responses have declined, but still get quite a few, often from guys much younger. We are very selective and meet probably about 1 in 10 who respond and have sex with no more than half of those we meet. Met lots of nice couples and guys and some not so nice.


SomewhereSE 60M
7 posts
2/2/2018 10:02 pm

been on and off here since 2007, met a few in the beginning but as I got older it tapered off and the number of women with visible profiles locally (within 50miles) declined as well, better options than this site no doubt. It's no longer worth being a paid member to keep looking at the same half dozen or so profiles that aren't a good match, or wait for the one or two new members that trickle in a month.


ApexDan1000 63M  
21 posts
2/2/2018 9:16 pm

Been on Adult Dating One for approximately 4 years and have met probably 20 (give or take). Approximately 15 resulted in sex and I would say it was a positive experience.


PantsConCarne666 46M  
1 post
2/2/2018 7:37 pm

ZERO ... I'm kinda over it.


Bradpittsford 59M  
1 post
2/2/2018 5:28 pm

I consider this predominately a fake website with large numbers of bots. I mean ladies hundred or even thousands of miles away that are 30 years younger contacting me with tag lines like "looking for love." I mean give me an f**ing break. I met only one lady and corresponded with maybe 3 others in my two month experiment here. It is not worth it. You will have more luck on Craig's list for free.


oldskooldray 50M
12 posts
2/2/2018 4:15 pm

I've met a few people on here , and still friends with a couple people on here.


McDawger 45M
45 posts
2/2/2018 12:57 pm

1 so far....not a bad meet and greet


funshop1969 48M  
1 post
2/2/2018 11:26 am

Zero!!! I put in no effort until recently, but as others have said there is a huge ration of men to women. If I were to stick my ass in the air on IM i'm sure I could meet 100 guys in a day, but women aren't so easily caught. Although I'm working at it and plan to meet that lucky lady soon.


isobifolks 62M  
18 posts
2/2/2018 9:36 am

It's very close to being a waste of time. Lot's of posers, no shows, and pic collectors.


ret_militaryguy 56M  
5 posts
2/2/2018 8:06 am

Have met a couple of pretty cool people on here


IamKooladventure 55M
13 posts
2/2/2018 6:50 am

met some crazies, lol


Funtimes1677 38M
5 posts
2/2/2018 3:34 am

I have met 0 in person.


sunmatic 62M  
5 posts
2/1/2018 10:24 pm

The women have it made here the ratio of men to women is around 8 to 1. So naturally women do well. I have not met anyone here. Lot of time wasted


listenharder 47M  
55 posts
2/1/2018 3:44 pm

I'm at a whopping 1 in almost 9 years but that's entirely my own fault

There are stories here: listenharder


tnt6969694 64M
17 posts
2/1/2018 1:03 pm

Have met several wonderful people here - look forward to meeting many more


Nawteebynature17 43F  
10 posts
2/1/2018 6:15 am

I have been on this site off and on for 12 years. I have met probably 100 people because we used to organize get togethers at the local patio bars. It was lots of fun. Now days though, this site is not the same as it used to be. No more meets lol. Personally, I have met maybe 20 men and had encounters with probably 15?? As mentioned before...so many misrepresent themselves which is very disappointing. But that is to be expected with any site! I have had some amazing experiences from some that I have met though!


Gypsy164 37F  
1 post
2/1/2018 2:36 am

13 in the last three months. Having a blast!!!


bill7blue 55M  
1 post
2/1/2018 12:54 am

I have met three. For two of them I enjoyed encounters, but neither was what we wanted so I moved on. The third one, most recent, completely misrepresented herself. She was looking for a daddy, and I am not him. lol. I have communication with several who have convinced me they are real, but we have found no reason to go beyond communication. For every one real person, I have to weed through dozens of fakes. You deal with the same on all social sites though. For the sites that cater to this type of lifestyle, this one does seem to have the higher percentage of real people.


wontgetitthatway 47F  
56 posts
1/31/2018 3:14 pm

In 4 ish years, 15 met. 3 led to sex and wishing I hadn't bothered. Is what it is.


Bedrebels 56M/57F  
10 posts
1/31/2018 3:13 pm

It's lost a lot of couples over the years but we have met hundreds of Cpls on this site... If you work real hard at it, you can be rewarded. Now its full of single males for the most part


karma2006 52M
178 posts
1/31/2018 12:59 pm

Met two women. Played with one. The second woman, we both felt it was not right.


haveabig14ya 48M
50 posts
1/31/2018 12:55 pm

Have to be upfront, I have lost count how many folks I have met on this site over the 10 plus years I have been on here. Not everyone panned out but many more did than not.....


BooneDavis 40M
48 posts
1/31/2018 8:29 am

Only met 3, not sure if that's a lot or a little

Midnight


3rdwheel4u269 60M
6 posts
1/31/2018 8:08 am

Been on this site on and off over the last few years. Most of the time my profile has been hacked....Gotten lots of offers from guys but few from the ladies. Even with the "friends" contact list they just want numbers on interaction.


WhiteWife4bbcKC 51F  
9 posts
1/31/2018 2:26 am

Actually, Adult Dating One has been my primary way of "dating" over the years. I've been on since around 1997 or 1998. Back then, sites like this were rare and Adult Dating One was the most organized. Now it is just one of many. I would guess I've met a guy maybe every 2 or 3 months, so probably around 60-80 over the last two decades, but things have slowed waaaaay down from what it once was on here.


A1LOVER2004 replies on 1/31/2018 1:56 pm:
WOW....WITH THOSE GORGEOUS TITS AND BODY I'M SURE YOU MEET GUYS EVERYWHERE YOU GO. I WOULD DEFINITELY MEET YOU IF WE WERE CLOSER...

KinkyCocoa69 48F  
6 posts
1/30/2018 10:30 pm

When you're bombarded with 50 - 100 requests per day, it's hard to weed out the trash but I've met a handful of cool guys on here.


bewbieluvr 50M  
64 posts
1/30/2018 4:58 pm

Best as I can recollect is around 25 - that I am aware of; may have met others without knowing they are members, and have met some before I knew they were members. Some are real-life friends who I've since happened across on the site. Meetings have run the full gamut from being stood up, having no connection, some soft playing, some one-time sessions, a few overnight stays, one 2 year relationship, and a couple of ongoing relationships.
A decent record seeing as how I rarely make the initial contact


darkone305 33M
71 posts
1/30/2018 4:35 pm

Been kind of hard to meet someone due to some of the fakes on here and the ones that don't have it all up there


Jessie90s 27F
1 post
1/30/2018 4:02 pm

I'm not sure of the exact number, but I'd have to easily say at least 20. Considering I'm now pregnant, it's safe to say that I've been flooded with messages recently...


A1LOVER2004 replies on 1/31/2018 2:01 pm:
WELL YOU ARE SMOKING HOT SO IT'S VERY EASY TO SEE WHY YOU ARE BEING BOMBARDED WITH REQUESTS.

ULIXBIG 63M
3808 posts
1/30/2018 3:03 pm

Physically met just one in 2 years. Was stood up about half a dozen times though, where nobody turned up for an agreed meeting.


TheCaveman76 42M
18 posts
1/30/2018 2:25 pm

It does seem to be getting harder to meet people on here , its been a few years since I met anyone genuine.


Watchinghockey86 48M
3 posts
1/30/2018 1:10 pm

Here in whithorse they seem to be all tire kickerrs yesrs ago meet some ladys on here and had some fun


DoctorBooty 37M  
6059 posts
1/29/2018 10:28 pm

Enough that I have actually lost count over the years, but it could easily be higher if I lowered my standards, and if I really enjoyed fucking with an audience. I never really liked having her husband watch


lakeflaccid 37M  
1 post
1/29/2018 10:07 pm

I signed up for a membership here in I think November of 2012. January of 2013 I met my first female in person and we ended up having a sexual relationship for about a year off and on because she was married. She is as of today January 30, 2018 the best sex partner I have ever had. I cancelled my membership after meeting her which was in February of 2013 three months later. I was having better luck on a free site called Tagged at the time so I let this site go. I have a one month membership here now but if I can't get anything going then I will go back to Tinder. I have had much better success there.


plumbboi 24M
101 posts
1/29/2018 9:58 pm

Only 1 and that is after a week of talking just to be sure there was no funny business on both side.

There is alot to see out there, so get out & experience the what the world has to offer.......or not


RinoHornPlesur 50M
25 posts
1/29/2018 7:50 pm

Well I have been here for YEARS!! Have made some good couples friends and only have met in the flesh 1 lady and she was BIG and by big I mean Truck N trailer... I finally just took the place for what it is a JOKE and treat it as such.Most are or want to be pen pals!I know 10 or more ladies and couples that DELETED the profiles years ago and the site just keeps bringing them back unknown to them!!As well I know of 3 ladies whom got married and the new Husband finds the profile they deleted Years ago! I know of 2 that have been dead for 3 or more Years and the profiles are being recycled by the site even after informing them the person is deceased!! Hundreds YES Hundreds of no show time and money wasting either flakes or fakes!! Majority of the so called ladies in My state have 3 or more profiles each boosting the ratio numbers and most here in Utah are bitches that can not get a look in WallMart and come on here and stupid newby horny idiots make em feel all special N shit and then they think they the hottest Cunt in the world and treat everyone with distain!! In short woman should not even be voting in the question posed here.Cause basically any stanky old wet hole a dude could drain a nut in can meet 500 desperate lonely fools on this dump of a site.


kissing_softly 111F  
174 posts
1/29/2018 6:04 pm

I lost count.


cookielover2 45M
23 posts
1/29/2018 4:54 pm

Since mid 2014 til now, well over 20 people. Probably somewhere between 25-35 single women and couples, mostly single women. It seems to come in bunches. About half the women that I meet become sexual partners. Most have come and gone over time for one reason or another, but I'm still in contact and active with several of the single women.


hungdon70 55M  
53 posts
1/29/2018 3:42 pm

i have been here for a while.. i have met about 6 people , single and couples over that time. lots of fakes and flakes.. still friends with a few i have met but not had sex with . as a single guy, it's tough to meet anyone that really wants to play.. and yes, this site sucks and getting worse .. IM sucks .


cuminmypussy2x 35F  
1 post
1/29/2018 1:47 pm

I have been on here around 7 months or so but i have met some really nice people, about 10. But i get 75-100 request to meet per day. I'm a married slut but i don't have the time to meet them all....lol


wildcard_73 44M  
1 post
1/29/2018 1:03 pm

this sites a fucking joke. it has ben the last few years. half are fakes and the other half think this is Dr.Phil.com


krisiswolfzeta 38M/37F  
19 posts
1/29/2018 12:41 pm

It's tricky. I am the male side and have been here on and off since 2006. Most of the ladies are gone. They no longer go one here. They are on other platforms. We come here for bisexuals only now.


Crystal_Lake 34F  
258 posts
1/29/2018 10:40 am

Thankfully I haven't met any of the garbage on here.

My cup runneth over
Like blood from a stone
These stand for me
Name your god and bleed the freak
I like to see
How you all would bleed for me


A1LOVER2004 replies on 1/29/2018 1:03 pm:
WHAT DO YOU CONSIDER GARBAGE?

naughtyguy1950 67M
4 posts
1/29/2018 10:25 am

Zero so far in the last few years. I guess I'm just too old and my penis is to small. I'm in the older age range, (70 yrs) and not many erotic minded ladies here in that age range. It sucks to get old.


tmorg1234 26M
1 post
1/29/2018 9:48 am

I think age is a big factor ive only met 2 because most arent interested in someone this young


ToyedObitsStoat 47M
33 posts
1/29/2018 6:33 am

been here long time met about 3 people had great time but most are here i think just for conversation or maybe i am doing something wrong


luvs2fuksuk 36F  
10 posts
1/29/2018 5:04 am

I've been on here off and on for 13 years......I've met around 150.......its more really I finally just quit counting. I get stood up well over half the time though.


A1LOVER2004 replies on 1/29/2018 7:36 am:
OMG....THE ONLY WAY I WOULD STAND YOU UP IS AGAINST A WALL WITH ONE LEG OVER MY SHOULDER AS IM POUNDING THAT PUSSY....LOL. LOVE THOSE SEXY PICS. LOOKS LIKE YOU REALLY KNOW HOW TO HANDLE THINGS.

Darkfreaky14bbw 32M
43 posts
1/29/2018 4:26 am

Met one friend from here but she introduces me to her other female friends for fun times


hrdrpecker2 61M  
1 post
1/29/2018 2:36 am

Hook ups with bi guys can be complicated.


barnacker 62M
16 posts
1/29/2018 1:55 am

None yet, just joined but am living in hope of a great time here


Magosika3 28M  
162 posts
1/28/2018 11:48 pm

out of the whole year I've never met anyone here so no action

welcome to my chats and spats


akiz4u 51M
7 posts
1/28/2018 10:44 pm

Some of the gals I have met here are also on Fetlife. Kinky gals are the best !


poullaki1982 36M
12 posts
1/28/2018 10:33 pm

ONLY 1! Most of them are fake in my area...


Alluringlyyours 24F  
15 posts
1/28/2018 9:33 pm

Unfortunately, zero. Joined this site May 2017. Too cautious and I'm also shy Have had plenty of offers (btw, thank you to all) but I don't know if and when I will ever meet anyone I've had great chats (wink, wink) that I've kept in touch with once in awhile (sexting, phone sex, or just normal chats)



Alluringlyyours


JMRod72 45M
12 posts
1/28/2018 7:17 pm

zero but I am hoping it is about to change soon /8...\8\8b


LadyTeddieBear 60F  
6 posts
1/28/2018 6:56 pm

I have been on here since 2012 met between 13 to 18 possible more some no sex a few sex a few just for a date to see if we had anything in commen


redy2plzu6969 64M/55F  
22 posts
1/28/2018 6:14 pm

We have been on here since 2012 and have met only 3 people. And only 1 sexual encounter. This site sucks. Too many men on here competing for the attention of a woman. I have read a poll of dating sites that says Adult Dating One is the worst site if your looking for a single woman to play with as it's 67% men or couples. The highest men/women ratio of heterosexual dating sites. Also Adult Dating One charges for every little thing.


Cutie7519 47M/42F  
1 post
1/28/2018 3:50 pm

Have met around 15-18 people off Adult Dating One for meet and greets. Only had 4 play dates over the last 3 years. Has been good for us as we are not looking to sleep with the world.. Just depends on what you like to do and how far you want to take it.


pearltongue78 40M  
1 post
1/28/2018 1:32 pm

Way down hill. Chat rooms used to have a lot more people, wasn't hardly any women on here trying to rent out pussy, and u could watch cams without women wanting tips. As soon as they get to asking for tips I leave their show.


A1LOVER2004 replies on 1/28/2018 1:46 pm:
I DEFINITELY AGREE WITH EVERYTHING YOU SAID.

Sumptiou 55M
6 posts
1/28/2018 10:59 am

the "fakes" are misguided or can be deluded about how people should relate. or are only out for the mental stimulation. which is cool too. but if cant relate in a chat, it wont ever work for a meet up. this is a communication place. else its just an ad posting.


Sumptiou 55M
6 posts
1/28/2018 10:55 am

they have to chat, be able to chat... that's number one. then they have to seem sincere.. interested.. discreet.. adventurous on levels..


whitelunch 68M  
7 posts
1/28/2018 10:50 am

I've met and had sex with 2 men from here, had a couple of no shows and am in contact with a couple more for future hookups.


AlohaScott 55M  
7 posts
1/28/2018 8:12 am

This is my second stint on Adult Dating One, the first was 6 years ago and only for a 3 month trial. I met with 3 women at that time. One woman misrepresented herself with old photos, one lady and I had no chemistry, and the other was a sex goddess who I saw four times over two months that summer. So far this time I have yet to meet with any women in person but have talked with several on the phones. It seems that more women are on here now just for entertainment and not wanting to meet in person.


LonelymwmNSC 64M
24 posts
1/28/2018 5:43 am

I have been on here for about 15 yrs one time as a couple now as a single male. Have met many people from here some worked out for play others just friends or meet and chat


lovableguy4her8 48M
21 posts
1/28/2018 4:54 am

Been here 6 yrs..site and people are fake...everyone wants to fuck but no one wants to meet? WTF


wincardium 55F  
2 posts
1/27/2018 9:54 pm

I have met some really nice men in the past two years and some couples. The men have been overwhelmingly nice, kind, smart and sweet. However, there have been an extraordinary number of no-shows, cancels and stood-ups. I guess that's just par for the course. Love it here on Adult Dating One. When it works, it's fantastic!


dubyavee 37M
3 posts
1/27/2018 9:40 pm

Haven't met anyone yet. Had two offers but timing wasn't right for either.


bandit5_0 48M  
65 posts
1/27/2018 9:07 pm

Living the Adult Dating One dream but its a lot of hard work. I've met mostly single women , a few couples, and got invited to join a couple of swinger groups. I didn't play with everyone I met but my time spent here is worth it. I agree with others as this site is definitely going downhill.


Plugger669 29M
16 posts
1/27/2018 6:01 pm

well if so many people arn't meeting lets step up the game!!! lol


LayMeDown17 48F  
34 posts
1/27/2018 5:30 pm

I haven't counted actually Think I have meet about 10, not all have wiorked out. One has been off and on for 3 years. Another, has been a couple meets.


horny83301 34M/30F  
2 posts
1/27/2018 5:03 pm

we have met alot of people from here some for play some for fun and some just wanted to hang out


tryanythingtwic8 57M
36 posts
1/27/2018 3:26 pm

I think most women are here just for chat


biglotofun4u 63M
19 posts
1/27/2018 2:04 pm

I've met just 3 women on here, had sex with one exceptional lady, but for the most part there are simply a lot of lookers, some hookers and then the fakes. Might be nice to host an area meet and greet so that there's some real face time


shag46514 68M  
39 posts
1/27/2018 11:50 am

Only been on for a short time. Have not met up with any one yet. my age scares many ladies. However, grandpa knows some tricks too, you do not have to be 30 something to have great sex.


7up48 65M  
23 posts
1/27/2018 11:29 am

I have been on this site for 17 years and nothing as of yet.


bisexualcharle69 53M  
201 posts
1/27/2018 11:07 am

all women and wanna meet a shemale and a male


Rmrdnite 55M  
4 posts
1/27/2018 11:06 am

I have been off and on this site for about 17 yrs and have met a lot of people from one on one to social gatherings and then there are those that are just picture viewers and then you have the no shows that they say sure I would love to come over and you wait and wait......


Kaciestar 53F  
3 posts
1/27/2018 9:49 am

I've been here about 5 years, mostly keeping up with old friends now. Lots of men, lots of sex. Some groups, some couples - I should write a book. There are some experiences I'd like to forget and some I'll dream about forever. Also, people that I'd love to meet who are just "chatting" friends. They just won't know what they're missing...


youngmanlooking1 46M
8 posts
1/27/2018 7:07 am

I travel a lot so I come on here when I'm in a diff city and meet others . not all turn out to be sexual but most do .


ILveTHICKWomen 46M
65 posts
1/27/2018 5:44 am

Lot of fake profiles and women


freakybynatur2 42M
9 posts
1/27/2018 5:23 am

A lot of talk, very little action


wifejustlookin 39F  
8 posts
1/27/2018 4:28 am

been here as either part of a couple or this profile for over 15 years and have met several decent ppl from here. Although will say it has gone down hill over the last few years...


OakKing421 50M
513 posts
1/26/2018 7:04 pm

eh ive met one single lady and one couple on here... all are wonderful people


moonie12556 61M  
1 post
1/26/2018 4:13 pm

Lot of flakes on here. Some scammers and a lot with old pics that they don't resemble anymore. But I have met some really cool people on here too.


ScCpl4BiFem 40M/39F  
44 posts
1/26/2018 11:41 am

We have been meeting people for a little more then 2 years and have only met about 4 people/couples from here. Have had a ton of fakes say they want to meet, but then they never show.


Slowpoke2017 63M  
1 post
1/26/2018 10:58 am

Four months, 0 meets, 3 scammers that got way too much of my money and a blackmailer wanting full body/face nudes. Still hoping...until my sub expires.


Steelersgame 50M
3 posts
1/26/2018 8:17 am

Too many fake people on here


bob144333 62M  
193 posts
1/26/2018 5:39 am

I have met with 6 had sex with three one I had sex with exclusively for 4 yrs she was the last one


Isttime4us 58M/58F
86 posts
1/26/2018 5:07 am

when my wife and I first joined people seemed a lot more willing to interact. We met one woman in person for a threesome,she was a nice person but I wasn't that attracted to her . she and my wife continued to correspond but nothing became of it. My wife no longer has any interest so i'm here alone. I met a couple and the husband could no longer perform and she was very horny and he was willing to share , there was an attraction but she was seeing someone else too so I declined. I had two other women that I corresponded with that were very friendly , I talked on the phone with one and we were going to meet ...she sounded pretty horny but she didn't provide a picture, so it never happened. there are one or two others but some people are just so uptight that it just doesn't seem worth it.


uneedmeinu 53M
18 posts
1/25/2018 11:12 pm

Too many fakes and escorts on here.I mustn't forget the scammers too.


JoldmanL 71M
126 posts
1/25/2018 11:06 pm

I and my departed wife, have been here since the late 90's... Have arranged for over 20 to meet.... of the 5 that did finally meet, others were no shows... I was what we expected, other 4 were not as they advertised/// zero went to final meeting... Wife found more playmates offline and was long term...... We did make friends online, some still stay incontact on here, others have found other playgrounds to be better pickings... I still stay in touch with both online and offline friends.

I stopped saying Good Bye, instead I say HELLO, until I see you again!


lkng4moretrbl 51M  
2 posts
1/25/2018 8:28 pm

I have been a member since 2005 altogether and Go ld for probably close to 90% of that time period. I have probably had close to 75 actual meets (they didnt always wind up with us in bed). Many I now consider friends and still hang out/play to this day. Some were VERY short lived beyond the initial hook up or meet and there has only been 2 that were (for lack of words at the moment) scary in 1 or more ways. Over all I would rate my satisfaction with overall meet up is average to above average.


redhotfun4you2 54F  
1274 posts
1/25/2018 5:13 pm

I have been a member for over 5 years including a few month break after the first year. I have attended several functions we have in our area, I even hosted coffee meets at a local coffee shop for a while. Therefore, I have probably met over a hundred, very few for sexual encounters.

Our area has an active chat room as well, where we converse on a regular basis. I will be attending a party/dance this weekend and will meet a few of the newer members.


autotech3222 59M  
41 posts
1/25/2018 4:36 pm

Only met one and that went nowhere


morningwood_61 57M
20 posts
1/25/2018 3:42 pm

several good meets....and good friends


galwaynew 49M  
12 posts
1/25/2018 1:54 pm

this site is a money racket
or ladies in Ireland don't meet
loads of fake irish profiles to collect the euro
once my gold membership goes ill be out of here


FthoodBimale 45M
20 posts
1/25/2018 1:31 pm

I have meet a lot of people from here . Once a few of us had a 2 day orgy in san Antonio . Best weekend I very had 11 different people and one good time . My Ass will never be the same


playtoy484 54M
40 posts
1/25/2018 1:11 pm

met many ... fucked several .... love to lick ass to clit


bryanwants2play 41M
16 posts
1/25/2018 11:53 am

I have hooked up with 2 from here in 3 years. One was a one time thing and the other a few times. Both was married.


playtoy484 54M
40 posts
1/25/2018 11:18 am

i have met 10 women on here and fucked them all Some many times .. some once or twice... i had one i fucked for months never should have let her go...


dessertgarden 48F  
21 posts
1/25/2018 9:13 am

Been here a year. Have been immensely enjoying the first guy I met from here for a number of months now! Recently added a second for additional occasional enjoyment and am considering a third.. then I can get them all together and be thoroughly filled all at once! mmm, things to ponder


A1LOVER2004 replies on 1/25/2018 9:34 am:
II CAN SEE THAT YOU ARE A LADY OF QUALITY, NOT QUANTITY....GOOD JOB!!!

prohibitedtyme 40F  
178 posts
1/25/2018 9:04 am

That's what it's turning into A1. I didn't come here for the blogs, but they entertain me. My profile is specific enough to know that I just want consistency/regularity from one person. Protection is a must. But the way these disrespectful guys are, I see why they are mad. They blame the women as to why they don't get ass, when they should look at their approach and know not all women will give it up because you said hi.


A1LOVER2004 replies on 1/25/2018 9:32 am:
YOU MAKE A GREAT POINT. I HAVE BEEN TELLING GUYS FOR YEARS TO JUST BE HONEST AND BE YOURSELF. AS FAR AS THEM EXPECTING SEX INSTANTLY YOU CAN BLAME THAT ON THE INTERNET. TODAY'S SOCIETY IS ALL ABOUT INSTANT GRATIFICATION. SO MOST PEOPLE THINK THAT SINCE YOU ARE "HERE" THAT YOU MUST BE DOWN. IT DOESN'T WOEK THAT WAY, THIS SITE IS JUST A MICROCOSM OF THE WORLD. EXPECT THE SAME THING FROM THE NET AS THEY WOULD IN PERSON IS WHAT I TELL THEM. YOU HAVE TO PUT IN SOME WORK....LOL

prohibitedtyme 40F  
178 posts
1/25/2018 8:15 am

I don't meet mostly because the men want instant sex from a stranger. They want you to come to there places or come to mine....and never seen each other or know each other. They don't want a conversation. It's "hey let's hookup" or "wanna fuck" or "do you give head in cars?" I don't know what kind of women they are used to talking to, or if that has worked, but it doesn't work here. I also don't just want to meet up at a bar so I can get rushed through a drink and go have sex. I need a connection and like to know who I am dealing with. There are a lot of crazies out here, and a lot of people just looking to pass on diseases, seeing most don't have on protection in their photos and videos.


A1LOVER2004 replies on 1/25/2018 8:25 am:
SO I TAKE IT YOU ARE HERE JUST FOR THE BLOGS?
THATS COOL. DIFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS.

throatscock 62M  
168 posts
1/25/2018 6:49 am

I have met several people on here over the past year that resulted in some great experiences. I have also had the distinct displeasure of a bunch of quacks that spend a lot of time on here with no intention of any real contact. A lot of the women are just fishing for compliments (a lot of puss pics) and men that are just flashing it in hopes of getting that elusive unknown something.


yumehole 52F  
7 posts
1/25/2018 4:34 am

I have been a member for all most 3 years and have met with over a 100 it has been wonderful sexually and I still continue to meet. I like to start with chat here that allows us to connect. I have on a few occasions chatted and met within the hour which is also very hot.


JohnInNebraska 58M
41 posts
1/25/2018 3:52 am

Havent met many on here. There seems to be a lot of fake people.


moonmajick 57F  
1 post
1/25/2018 12:08 am

I have met at least 50 people from Adult Dating One, probably more. Everyone I've met in person have been very nice down to earth people. I only met one person I didn't like and that's because he used someone elses photo instead of his own.


mrtoad31 48M  
318 posts
1/24/2018 11:54 pm

Used to meet and talk to many more years ago but now its mostly fakes on here and rude guys that make the girls to shy to meet


A1LOVER2004 47M  
131 posts
1/24/2018 10:16 pm

THERE ARE A LOT OF INTERESTING STOEIES HERE. I APPRECIATE YOU ALL TAKING THE TIME.........MY EXPERIENCE STARTED OUT LIKE THIS. FOR THE FIRST 4 YEARS I ONLY MET A HANDFUL OF PEOPLE ABOUT 8. THEN FOR THE NEXT 10 YEARS IT BECAME A STEDY FLOW OF PEOPLE WILLING TO MEET. I FIND THAT BEING IN GROUPS, CHATS, AND HAVING SIMILAR OUTSIDE INTERESTS OTHER THAN SEX HELPS A LOT. LATELY THE PAST 4 YEARD IT HAS SLOWED A BIT. I THINK ATTITUDES HAVE CHANGED, PLUS THERE ARE SO MANY OTHER SITES PROVIDING COMPETITION. BUT OVERALL STILL HAVING FUN AND MEETING NEW PEOPLE.


Tjregal1976affx 60M  
76 posts
1/24/2018 9:26 pm

I been a member for 2 1/2 years now and still have NOT MET ANY LADIES YET.
Some ask for money drop them. Some say they will meet me and never follow thru. Mostly the rest want to play games. I live in the country and almost all the women I emailed live in the cities. I guess they think I live too far away going to the cities is no problem for me.


Lady_Jayne_Layne 36F  
2643 posts
1/24/2018 8:42 pm

Last person I met from here was almost 2 years ago. He moved back home to Chicago, but we still keep in touch a lot. Past that, nothing. I meet more people from other places, i.e Okcupid, Fetlife than here.

Tripping the Light Sarcastic


temptationplus58 59F  
988 posts
1/24/2018 8:04 pm

As the years go by, I meet fewer and fewer people. Last year I met one person. Nothing came of the meeting, my choice.


tyrantcapri 45M
6 posts
1/24/2018 7:32 pm

been on this site about nine months, met four ladies in person, and l enjoyed them all


digsit169 52M
1 post
1/24/2018 7:03 pm

Been on here for a few years. Met 1 lady, but she got cold feet and didn't go forward. Since then I guess I'm not what they are after.


illtrynow 51M
4 posts
1/24/2018 6:47 pm

This site can be amusing at times hence the main reason I get on it.Perhaps a little too amusing,as it can help you push your sexual limits and that isn't always a good thing ive learned.Met a few people on here,some quite awkward situations,some I did like,however would be easy to give it all up for a woman who I connected with maybe someday--


aniceride 47M  
57 posts
1/24/2018 6:34 pm

lol well to be honest the answer is i can't remember exactly how many but it's somewhere close to the number you have.i'v been a member since 04 so i'v been here a little while lol.now i will say it does help being actually bisexual and have met every gender you can think of.the types that i have met the most is couples both bi & str,mostly bi.i always get asked what's the trick to meeting people.really the answer is also the simplest,be HONEST about who you are and what your looking for.not everyone fits so don't try to make it fit.FILL out your profile fully so people can tell more about what they are looking at.for god sakes guys STOP with the one liner emails and sending pics of your junk.don't get me wrong it's good to have those types of pics but in your profile not as a starting point.if you follow these simple rules you'll do just fine.hell i'm not the best looking guy in world but being real will get you a lot further anyway.


Gidster1 53M
2 posts
1/24/2018 6:25 pm

I am obviously what no one is looking for.


bigblackman21221 47M  
3530 posts
1/24/2018 3:00 pm

From 4/2010 to 4/2012 over 25.

I wasn't active from 4/2012 to 6/2017.

Since 6/2017 three.
I already knew one and the other two were one hit wonders.
A drink or lunch and that was it.


MrMoneyShot4u 38M
4 posts
1/24/2018 6:48 am

2 that i remember so far


cumboi65 66M  
836 posts
1/24/2018 6:13 am

I have been a member, off and on, since 2000 and have met, personally, with approximately 25 men not only for sex but also for friendly outings.


1025mws 54M
577 posts
1/23/2018 6:52 pm

I met 4 women on this site. We had a good time together.
Now it is hard to meet or talk to woman on this site.


eager4unow 61M  
1347 posts
1/23/2018 3:05 pm

I have been a member off and on since January 2005 and have lost count of how many people I have met from this site. I voted 20+ because it's at least that. Most of the people turned out to be sex partners but a few were just "glad to meet you but there was no physical attraction"...


sphxdiver 68M  
19785 posts
1/23/2018 3:01 pm

I'll just say that I have met some very fine women from this site, and leave it at that !!


ILickYou069 49M
26 posts
1/23/2018 9:17 am

I gave myself a lower amount than I think I actually met but is still a rather small amount compared to many here. I have met for sex and have met for actually dating. I have had great as well as horrible experiences as I'm sure many can relate to. 2 of the few I have met I had dated for close to a decade each, Yes, this profile isn't that old but they deleted my last one I had many many years ago ergo this silly one.

I just wish they stopped trying to upgrade this site as it seems now the only ones that can get their e mails through to us that refuse to pay to chat and potentially meet the few out of the countless that are real. For instance, I refuse to upgrade on principles because this site is extremely flawed. Case in point, how many of you have realized the ONLY e mails that come through to non upgraded members are the ones soliciting you to join a cam site or prostitutes? The ones from real people to you ironically get blocked, changed to Latin and isn't even what the writer wrote..

1 step forward and 2 steps backwards has never worked anywhere Adult Dating One, just some food for thought.


Readmoreofeveryt 44F  
1418 posts
1/23/2018 8:35 am

Probably about 15. I want to be safe but I want to weed out losers so I won't just meet or hook up with just anyone. If I did my number would be just as high because I get contacted a lot!!! It cracks me up that the guys always say they want a connection but seem more paranoid to give contact info and meet half the time. I haven't met any that said they didn't feel a connection, weren't impressed with me, etc! If they seem open with info, easy going, patient with me scheduling them in between jobs and kid, mature, have manners, if they seem to match what I'm looking for as that changes, etc!


lovethestick 72M
388 posts
1/23/2018 8:29 am

I have meet two guys from this site and had a very nice time with them .


HollyChatsNJ 59T  
750 posts
1/23/2018 8:15 am

Years back I used to meet many. Not necessarily for sex though.
This go around I’m so specific on whom I’m in search of. So the number of meets are few and far between.

~Holly
Atlantic City, NJ


A1LOVER2004 47M  
131 posts
1/23/2018 7:55 am

I LOVE TO MEET PEOPLE AND "TALK" WITH REAL CONVERSATION. THE INTERNET MESSAGES BACK AND FORTH DOESN'T ALLOW US TO FEEL A REAL VIBE. NOT ALWAYS ARE WE A GOOD MATCH BUT I THINK IT'S GREAT TO BE FACE TO FACE AND SEE IF WE HAVE A CONNECTION.


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