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Makin a list...
Posted:Nov 15, 2015 9:22 am
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Goin to try to keep everything nice
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Pre-sinday coffee thoughts
Posted:Jul 21, 2018 10:46 am
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2018 9:55 am

Cougar prowling the ranch (no I'm not the only cougar around), is keeping us busy and now looking at the safety and security of the area. So lets just say its going to be a busy day here.
But I do get a few cups of dark coffee with my butcher brats and hashbrowns.

Its no secret I'm on dating sites searching for men that like me as a person (vs being a crunchy sock on here) so at least he may put the effort into the sex. But in my age grouping the chances of mismatched libidos is pretty high. I am reading into erectile dysfunctions, lower sex drives, and how to cope with them. At least I'm open to learning about the health issues. (His, not mine bec mine is still really high)

The risk of finding someone great but with a low sex drive is on my mind, because I have spent years with mismatched libidos and the tension that it caused....it makes me pretty reluctant to even try and meet. Well, probably due in part its because older men that are interested so the risk is real, then try and add on the sexploring aspect along with my daily life interests. Lol

But the one thing that really deters me is the obvious dislike of women, especially older women. I just don't understand why those men are even on dating sites that are designed for people to meet, why don't they just stick to hookup sites or be that straight guy looking for sex with other men.

I already see the ads on here around hating your partner.... and I think I will spend less time perving on here and just find other free porn sites to look at, there has to be some hetero sites out there that don't have an undertone of hate/dislike for women.

But back to the mismatched libidos.... am I willing to give up on dream of lots of sex just to find someone to talk with and even date, because you need to find someone that sees you as a person before any good sex starts... But those that are interested are older men, or men with lower sex drives... cant win at this can I.
Reading through the articles on the 'orgasm gap' at least helped me understand that it wasn't just me that is treated like a warm sleeve. Lol

So sexy bloggers,
Orgasm gap in hetero sex encounters...
Mismatched libidos...
The disposable culture we live in...
The selfish and narcissistic socialization ...

There is no utopian place of sensuality and mutual pleasures hidden away in the depths of the online world, its the 'will you fuck her? Swipe left/right'.

Where to go to find those sought out pleasures of the mind and body... Delight my senses with touch, sound, primal thoughts, and hot sexual pleasures.
To feel his warm skin, to listen to his breath quicken as his arousal comes forward, to see the lust in his eye, to feel his touch...............

Where are those casual partners that would like sex when I want sex,... which leaves me looking for a man open to relationship. Lol. Because most men are not interested in sex when I'm horny as fuck.

Where are these mutual pleasures and why are they so hard to find in the fast food lazy society.

Yes I get it, I'm in my 40's and should be on an iceberg being sent out to sea. No need to remind me. So I hope in my next life I either find those passions or I better be asexual. Lol!

The blog about rejection so related to my thoughts, being offered anonymous sex isn't all that great. I know men think it would be awesome to receive messages from random women wanting sex right now....
Reminds me of the older blog "psst hey you random hole, wanna fuck"

Cougar to hunt down, trees to clear, dead sheep to bury, coffee is done for the day, hardly any sleep for weeks now... yep its one of those days I just want to be curled up in a lovers arms and blissfully fuck the weekend away.
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Finally friday
Posted:Jul 20, 2018 9:30 am
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2018 12:43 pm

Ah those where the days.

Enjoy the friday, its 5 o'clock somewhere.
Almost friday...
Posted:Jul 19, 2018 2:59 pm
Last Updated:Jul 20, 2018 7:07 pm

Yah! I get to work the wknd ....again...
Wait, thats not relaxing at all.

Maybe lightening storms will come thru and I can't work outside... yes! Then its toy time.
I woke up last night masturbating, so I think I need a few more orgasms weekly than I allowing myself.

When your body wakes you up because yanno horny!.

Enjoy your day.
Can you...
Posted:Jul 18, 2018 8:38 am
Last Updated:Jul 18, 2018 9:48 pm

Enjoy the hump day.
Safe what?
Posted:Jul 17, 2018 6:35 pm
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2018 9:29 am

Safer sex not safe sex. Lol
Condoms don't protect you if you bareback oral.
You can get all the std/sti in your mouth and throat...
Plus they don't keep you safe from hsv or hpv.

But they are 98% bullet proof.
Maybe try a full body condom next time!
Going camping?
Posted:Jul 16, 2018 4:37 pm
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2018 5:32 pm

Just remember..... hes not going to ask for a sandwich.
Just wait a minute..
Posted:Jul 15, 2018 1:26 pm
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2018 6:51 pm

Stackable livestock.
Its wet...
Posted:Jul 14, 2018 10:20 am
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2018 1:31 pm

I need to take some fly fishing lessons, at least I can fish by myself.

Enjoy your day,
Its going to be a scorcher here.
Add a post
Posted:Jul 13, 2018 7:59 pm
Last Updated:Jul 15, 2018 10:01 pm
It said.

Its been on hell of a week I ain't gonna lie...but I do guess that many of you have figured that out already.

There are no excorts in my area or even remotely close to help with my situation. And I do believe that a good wknd of sex would help my mind rest at least for a little while. This lowering my libido is wearing me down and lending to end my days in frustration right quickly. My nights are becoming almost tortured in my restless sleep.
I don't know how you do it..... stuff the genie back in the bottle.

I going to start hiking with my 20lb pack again, see if that helps. Lol

Enjoy the night,
I get to work this weekend on a 11 day stint.
Finally Friday
Posted:Jul 13, 2018 8:51 am
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2018 4:23 pm

I think I need some toy time... I don't know how you manage to keep your libido low without becoming even more frustrated. Lol

Enjoy your Friday and count yourself lucky to not be judged for enjoying sex. Lol!

I need to watch a comedy, rub a few out, load up on the sleep aids.
Attractiveness and potential
Posted:Jul 12, 2018 9:17 pm
Last Updated:Jul 19, 2018 9:46 am
So sexy bloggers,

Obviously I'm not new to this site or online dating sites, but one thing that plays on my mind the most is not actually sex but attraction or attractiveness.
After enough experience I now know the type of guy that will use me as a crunchy sock vs the one that may see me as a person.

I know people like to go on n on about confidence is sexy more than physical...... ya I squashed that myth a long time ago, and pretty sure I blogged about it a couple of times.
It really doesnt matter how confident you are it still comes down to attraction.
And yes my experience proved that over n over again n again until my confidence broke, and then it was all about the physical/facial features.

Ok, now, where, was, I ...

Slightly sensitive topic but one I am obviously used to,

Men do you approach less attractive women in the hopes the sex will be easy/easier to attain?

Do you treat them vastly different than the attractive/beautiful ones?
Or have you even noticed that you treat them differently?

Like not looking at her much, or touching her, or not letting her touch you..
(Ya I had terrible experiences)

How about when she says that she is not your type?

I can tell pretty easy that he is wanting hot not average.

*Conventionally attractive women
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