I am a conscious and patient explorer of sex, love, and pleasure, with a great sense of humour. I mean this stuff is pretty amazing and pretty silly all at the same time. And I am here to see if there are people who are interested in playing with me - playing in the fun sense of play and playing in the erotic sense of fuck-yeah! Interested to see if we are compatible in erotic exploration and adventure. Interested in exploring the possibilities of relationships that endure and provide great joy and pleasure for as long as they run be that a meetup coffee or over years. So NSA is always the starting assumption but I reckon that in reality despite what people say, the first dates, meeting, or play party is always NSA. Definitely interested in couples or women who are secure in themselves and would like to add companionable erotic exploration into their mix with a polyamorous man already in committed relationships with women and have been for nearly 10 years. I am here for mostly casual or FWB or group experiences. My last FWB is now going 4 years and counting so everything starts somewhere. I think the main erogenous zone, apart from the mind, is the skin and light touch may be as stimulating as heavy touch. I like to take time and not be cum-conscious or orgasm driven. I would love to meet for coffee or other ways to cut though the torture of having to come here all the time. :) BTW I am an adult sex educator and work with folks around sex issues and sometimes even relationship issues. Which means I'm a no-nonsense person and have a lot of experience and practice to draw on.

My Ideal Person Is a woman or couple that wants to indulge and revel in intimate, vulnerable, sexual pleasure with me in a playful sensual respectful manner. When I say indulge I mean getting everything we want and extending it as far as possible - not rushing but thoroughly into slow sex, boundaried talks, and endless curiosity, and primalness. Hoping to find ones that work now and into the future.

And if you don't know what you like are at least prepared to find out because I am always curious.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, Experimental and adventurous

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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