I’m a white man with brown/graying hair and blue eyes. I’ve been married for over 2 decades, but it is a companionable marriage (no sex). Spouse is also pure vanilla. So, I have sought other company to explore my sexual, kinky side with. I had a paramour, limited ANR, for 5+ years and we parted as friends. I work in a sensitive, public job. So discretion is an absolute requirement. Looking for a woman comfortable with and accepting of my situation. Must be a non-smoker. Within easy driving distance. Able to host would be a bonus. Pregnant or nursing would be an ideal.

My Ideal Person non-smoker, beyond vanilla

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The middle of a park, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage, suckling breastmilk, pregnancy

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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