[COLOR green]I have been on this site before and found it to be decent, and I made a friend or two...... I am into the BDSM Lifestyle and prefer friends that are also in the Lifestyle or at least ones that can accept it without tripping.... I have a loved one but we are not together right now due to unfortunate circumstances.... Looking for friends to hang out with and maybe get together for a game night....[/COLOR] [COLOR deeppink]As far as BDSM goes, I have been out in the Lifestyle 10 yrs, 6 as a bottom/sub/slave and 4 as a top/dom/mistress...both tops/dom's and subs have spoiled me so if I come off harsh .....it is because I know what I want and I have had it before.... Whether or not I ever switch again and become someones submissive is in the air...it would really depend on the man and his ability to accept my life as I have it laid out now....and compliment me rather then rule me...[/COLOR]

My Ideal Person Friends....it is more valuable to make friends then to get laid....

Someone who isn't needy, clingy or too aggressive..preferably a man who already knows he is kinky and that BDSM isn't always about the sex....

I am also hoping to find a willing vict...ummm....volunteer to bottom/sub for me as I learn some new kinks...someone who is familiar with the Leather/BDSM lifestyle preferred. You don't have to be a "true" sub, just a bit of a masochist, confident and not afraid to let someone learn with you as the canvas. I will not rule out a total novice, but you HAVE to know you are kinky, you HAVE to have some inkling that being of service is something you want in your life. I don't really expect to find this kind of submissive here, since so far the self-proclaimed subs I have met - after talking with me for a little while - find out they are not subs so much as they are bottoms or not subs/bottoms or really kinky to me....
Now if a sub should find himself still reading, here are some guidelines to what I am about and some of what is expected of you.... subs should be confident, assertive, capable of making decisions on their own, able to carry out tasks without them having to be spelled out, have some sort of income, not be afraid to try new things, and be in control of his hornyness...by this gentlemen I mean be aware that you having an orgasm is not my primary concern. Matter of fact depending on your willingness and behavior, you may be subjected to weeks of teasing before being allowed to get off. I expect a potential sub to be in control of his urges. I expect you to keep your hands to yourself and any comments about my anatomy(boobs) also to yourself. This doesn't mean we won't make out - it is just gonna be on my terms and at my pace, not yours. PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU CAN NOT ABIDE BY THESE GUIDELINES!!!!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Truth be told - my real life is interesting and exciting
enough I don't bother with fantasies....

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Fetishes, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Slave/Master, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage, Having my mind stimulated

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Free of Jealousy!

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Celebrity sex? Nope - don't know what the big deal is
about celebrities anyways....

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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