I'm not a gold member. My ability to respond depends on your account settings. Usually, I can only see thumbnails...even for gold members. 3x+ PA legal age, zaftig, intelligent, independent woman looking for camaraderie, comfort and friendship with benefits, if compatible. Looking to change my circumstances; not upset anyone's life. I have my own habits, opinions and possessions. I do not need yours. One-night stand notch counters, overly opinionated conspiracy theorists, smokers and depressed, cup half full types need NOT contact me. I don't have an ax to grind or judge anyone by anything other than their own actions. However, if you think it's appropriate to introduce your dick first; spare me. Friends first. THEN benefits, if mutually agreeable. I'm not a gold member. What I see and can respond to depends on your account settings.

My Ideal Person Non-smoking, secure and independent enough in himself to let me be me. That includes accepting a different perspective, sarcasm, and my disinterest in your dick pic being your introduction.