Safe, sane and I guess sensual, not to be confused with consensual. I have no complications in my life, I am a free spirit that is here to live and enjoy what life throws at me. Good, honest down to earth people are what I seek in my life. I am on the whole quiet, calm and controlled within. I enjoy my quiet time and my own company, I also love being around fun people, I love to see people smile, I like happy strong people. At this point in time, I am exploring both sides, this is not to say I will not resume where i'd prefer to be. Life is to short so Im living the dream expanding my horizons, who knows where it will take me. Smiling quietly ~To free us from the expectations of others, to give us back to ourselves - there lies the great, singular power of self-respect. Remember that which does not kill us can only make us stronger. And that which does kill us leaves us dead! My Ideal Person: If you are sad or depressed I am not the person for you, I require strong vibrant people in My life. If I/We suggest coffee or a drink, well that is what it is. Nothing more. I like to get to know people, I am open and honest and I expect the same from you. If you can not be, move along. I am in all honesty growing tired of people that say one thing and do another. Interests outside of dating are always an advantage. What type of scene activities would you be interested in exploring?: Body worship, Collar & Lead/Leash, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Power Exchange, Role Play and just having fun.