Hey, IM doesn't work for me. So I rather communicate through messages. I speak Dutch, English and sarcasm fluently; Oh yeah, I'm a straight forward person as you will see on my profile, I am just honest with you and I do expect the same. I visit the US on a regular basis. Looking for interesting people, to hang out with, maybe show me a bit around in the places you like, or whatever does or doesn't happens is up to that time, that place. I am single and if chemistry is there I'm open to something more longterm too, but that depends on who I meet, how we feel, where things lead us and what your current situation is. So I rather meet up and see if we (can) click or not than to chat for ages first (and then maybe not click once we meet). If it just happens that chemistry is not there, is it fun? No, it just means we should part again without any hard feelings. I'm not here to waste my or your time! If you are a free member and want to get in touch, give me a sign (like the flirt button), if the interest is mutual I'll get in touch! I'm not here to make virtual friends, so camgirls, as fun as you might be I'm not interested. In the end everyone is here to look for something and that's, due to my professional life, not what I'm looking for. More pictures in friends-only album. WARNING: Scammers/fakers, don't see this as a challenge but I can see through you and you will be blocked and reported in a few seconds.

My Ideal Person Anybody who doesn't think the above means I'm just another tourist who wants to get laid while visiting.

I think mental stimulation is at least as important is physical stimulation. Foreplay is fun, to give and recieve. I love to have my partner enjoy herself, wether that is by penetration or licking her from top to bottom. I'll lick you until you are begging me to stop!

Ladies: You like men sending you messages? You like men sending you messages without a pic of their member? You like men sending you messages where there's more than just hi said? Then please have the decency if a man does all those things to answer.
And if it turns out you are not interested, let me know, we are adults on here, right?
UPDATE: a flirt from me means I might be interested but I'm not sure if it's mutual.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), An airplane, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room, No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, The mind, that has to bring chemistry in the first place

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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