***NO BI or GAY MEN PERIOD*** We are a happily married couple of 29 years. We are very committed to each other and very much in love. We aren't looking to replace anything, but enhance what we already have. We call ourselves vanilla swingers. We are ethically non-monogamous and love having sex with other people. We are full swap. Vanilla because we are not into whips and chains or hurty things. Not interested in never ending chats or pen pals. If there is interest, there's no need to talk it to death. So, feel free to message us and lets have dinner sometime. We may not be your cup of tea and it may not work out, but you will 100% miss every shot you don't take.

My Ideal Person We are looking for couples and select singles. We would like to meet people we can hang out with and not just a one-time thing. We also understand that, that is not always going to happen. We are ok with that too.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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