Hi, my name is Sean. After being married for 12 years, I'm here to share friendship and excitement with other like-minded adults. So, what do you have on your bucket list (things you have yet to experience)? Since the overwhelming majority of my intimate experiences were with one per, I have quite a few. I hope some of them interest you, even if they aren't still on your bucket list. Here's some of my list: - Sex on a balcony overlooking the beach - Sex on the beach - Sex surrounded by nature, a babbling brook or waterfall would be a bonus - Sex in a store's changing room as we hear others changing in rooms around us - Sex in the bathroom (or elsewhere) at a nightclub as we hear the music/bass permeating our senses - If not sex at a concert, then at least if I can touch and taste you to orgasm to the pounding music - To be there in per and watch a beautiful couple make love, but not to be an active participant - MFF threesome - MMF threesome - MMFF foursome, same-room sex so we can all see and hear each other - DP, myself and another gentleman providing you with extreme sensation - Roleplay: You're the doctor and I'm the patient. Take my vitals. Tell me what clothing to remove and when. Use your hands on my body to look for any possible concerns. Even give me a stress test if you deem it medically necessary. - Roleplay: I'm the doctor and you're my patient. - Roleplay: I am or you are the masseuse...complete with full body massage. - Roleplay: You're my photographer and we're taking pictures in a tranquil nature setting. I'll bring a small wardrobe for changes, even though the clothes won't always be required. - Exotic Dancer: I'm the entertainment for your small bachelorette party or birthday party. Tell me how much I can remove in my dance routine. Oh, and touching IS allowed.

My Ideal Person A lady or couple who are confident and comfortable exploring sexual possibilities. I respect that "no" is always no...but "maybe" is a chance to consider endulgance and to explore fantasies with the right person(s) that most deny themselves.

Ladies, my excitement hinges more on the pleasure I give than what I receive. My bucket list is a perfect example of how my excitment is driven by my mind. I would love to be an actor in shaping your thoughts and driving your excitement. I'm not in any rush though, and you'll never get any pressure from me, so we can take our time to your heart's content.

Couples, I would cherish the opportunity to add to the excitement in your relationship. I know how much of a privilege it would be for you to consider me, let alone to have me join you. I'm there at your invitation, and as such I would honor any of your desires and limitations. My excitement is to be part of adding to your excitement. Let me show you how much of a gentleman I am, then more if you find the chemistry between us to warrant it.

Quickly, let me address the 2+ men-in-the-room issue that comes into play with couples since it's always an underlying concern. I am 99% straight. I don't say bi-curious because I'm not all that curious. Not many men have ever prompted me to think "maybe". I have no issues being nude or in nude company with another man or men. I wouldn't even take issue with incidental contact (like incidental brushing or contact during DP). However, I doubt very much I would do more with the male unless he happens to be one of those unique ones that prompt me to think "maybe". But that would require upfront consent on all sides if "maybe" happened to come to fruition. So men, consider yourselves safe.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage, CFNM, giving pleasure even without the need to receive
pleasure

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Sense of adventure

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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