Fun, funny, sensual...hate writing these things. Also hate that men think a woman liking or wanting sex means he can treat her as an unpaid . I expect to be treated with respect. If your first contact to me has words you wouldn't use with your mother, don't bother. I won't respond. Flirty and treating me like you've met me on a street corner are two very different things.

My Ideal Person My ideal person? For now? Would honestly be looking for a friendship that could include benefits. NOT just the benefits. Not just telling me he wants more than the benefits. I'm not quite looking to jump into a relationship, though some day I'd like one again, but for me, sex is better with someone I'm familiar with and comfortable with.

He would be intelligent, funny, and decent. Make me laugh. Make me think. Those things make me horny.

I kind of have my doubts such a person exists.

Update: Also...I say friends with benefits because I'm not emotionally in a place for a full on relationship. That does NOT mean I'm cheating on someone or will get involved with someone who is cheating on someone. If you're married or attached, we can be platonic friends if you want one of those, but nothing more.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Neyo, Usher, Clay Aiken (yeah, I said it), Lady Antebellum,
Maroon 5, etc

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Willing to get to know each other

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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