I am a plus-sized married woman, age early 50’s, 5'-4", white, natural auburn hair (at times blonde) cut just below the shoulders, with 36-D chest. I can be a little of an exhibitionist, with a husband that has that fetish of seeing his wife with other men. We’ve been involved in both the Swingers and BDSM lifestyle years ago, and now contemplating Cuckoldry role playing. I get excited having my husband see me with other men doing straight sex and oral (will swallow), maybe anal with right per, and occasionally multiple partners to spice things up. Not into pain or water sports, but still enjoy blindfolds and bondage. Not looking for one-nightstands, but for weekends at least twice a month fun, and need someone in the San Diego North County area to ensure more playtime when the mood hits. Husband will be present during all play time. You must be a endowed (7” or larger – a BIG must) man in the 36 to late 50s age range. You must be able to host in a clean environment, be a Dominant man able to take control and put me in my place in the bedroom while husband is present, but you must be respectful, discreet and a gentlemen in public. Must have good stamina and able to keep it up, D/D free, very clean, well groomed and get huge visible gratification in having and using another man’s wife in husband's presents. Please no smokers, and reply with comments regarding your similar interests, ideas or experiences.

My Ideal Person Ideally a gentleman that can get along with both my husband and me is a must while in public. A endowed man (something my husband is not) that can control and use me for his pleasures in the bedroom desirable as I am naturally submissive when it comes to sex. Since I am only doing this for my husband, you must be able to communicate and work together with my husband on new ideas for role playing. Sorry, but I cannot stand smokers, as I can typically smell it on the clothes and in the room.