Let's start over, I'm a 30 year old guy who likes to find and try new things in life within my comfort zones.... and the time seemed right to indulge in some of that here if I can find the right people to do it with. Generally someone with a light hand and a hard cock, but experimenting some with being a bit more hard handed while being dominant as well.. I find I'm pretty much a switch by nature and think sex should be fun. I've been with a couple couples and a couple singles but still looking for new and good times. I'd also like to talk to and get to know people before things get too far, maybe do things both in and out of the bedroom depending on distance and location and such; but don't have any of it as a set rule. I don't tend to be just a one night stand kind of guy, but I'm also not completely against the idea, especially if I know it heading into things.

My Ideal Person Someone who is able to carry on a conversation and be able to take a little bit of humor, or at least someone that if they don't want to do this, will throw my clothes on the floor as soon as I'm in the door and keep our mouths busy.

Attraction is a must, beyond that we'll see how we mesh.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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