I've had fun 3,000 feet in the air... gliding..and 35 feet under water..diving. On land I can hold my own in everything but golf and hockey. Tennis is my favorite and the only sport I watch regularly on TV, other than some playoff hockey and football. I am planning to do a lot of cycling& other stuff this summer to get into better shape. In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take, the relationships we were afraid to have, and the decisions we waited too long to make. Looking for Someone with similar characteristics and interests, hopefully someone that knows their own mind and are not afraid to speak it. Looking for a regular partner who would like to go to wine tastings, local county fairs, take ballroom dance lessons, the beach for an afternoon or a bike ride. I have been at a desk far too long and would like to increase my level of fun & activity. I am not interested ladies who want to be my only interest on this or other sites. I am already attached and if I was leaving I would have been gone long ago! I will chat with other ladies if only to avoid getting too attached to another. I will not leave a disabled woman! It's not who I am!!! Thanks for the time

My Ideal Person Looking for: Someone with similar characteristics and interests who is independent and knows what they want. Does not matter if married or single or BBW,. Occasionally, if mood allows it, would like someone who can put up with a 45 minute or longer full body massage that would include everything between the baby toe to the tips of ears. Time may increase depending on how many distractions I allow myself. To me, one of the hottest things about a woman is that she enjoys relations as much as I do.... and will do whatever it takes so long as it feels goood. By that time I'll have had what I need too!

Depending on how we get along I could see enjoying a vacation away together.

I am also a little interested in finding someone to explore the naturist/nudist camp in Bothwell for a weekend ...eventually if we get along - more if we agree.

Body Massage method

So the following gives the method so to speak but I have left out the fact that I generally set up at least 4 pillows in a 2&2 stacked formation to support you from your head to your hips so that your knees would bend slightly to rest on the bed and that would allow me to enter and exit certain errogenous areas as required. This is the best way to spend a couple of hours. I hope you see the reason for my being partial to this activity.

I'd start by having you lay face down on the pillows with a towel warmed up in the oven and drape that over the lower half
of your body so you don't get a chill. Then some good massage oil scented with lavender or rose. Start at your shoulder/neck area to relieve some stress, then work out the knots out of each arm then down to the palms and give a firm rub to loosen up
your fingers. I know I'm done when I gently swing your arm and it
acts like cooked spaghetti. From there, return to the back and work each side of the spine with my thumbs in a circular motion and then out from the spine to your sides.

Next we move the towel down to expose the top of the crack in your bum. I have to change position now so I'm looking in the direction of your feet and once again working the hip bone area with my thumbs to relax any tense
areas I find. Now I am going down on you **^&%$## sorry better way to say that is I'm moving the towel up to cover your shoulders new towel if the first is cool. And now using a fair bit of thumb and palm pressure on the big muscles in your butt some circular
motion but mostly longer angular movements out from your centre to the sides and repeated firm strokes with both hands again to work out knots you didn't know you had.

Now starting at the feet with a foot massage then move up to your calves with thumbs and palm pressure pushing toxins and bad stuff up to your lungs( and what lungs they are) sorry not professional.

Then up to the knees and work on the large thigh muscles similar action as for the calves but this continues right to the tops of your legs. But not to be neglected this ares has a large muscle mass and will take some time to release all of the stress so its best to use firm strokes, comfortable pressure, and allow enough time to do the job.Of course I've had to reapply the massage oil a couple of times but this area needs more and now. At this point
it's wise to check the covered areas to see if any tension has built up again and work to release that.

Now you are still on your tummy and I have to run my hands up and down your inner thighs to check for lingering stress so that involves running my hand down from your pussy lips to the top of
you knees and it’s almost a pull with firm pressure so as to feel hidden knots. This could take 3 to 5 minutes but more if you like. At this time I have t, once again, using a small circular motions with my thumbs work on the area between your leg and the edge of your pussy. So I would start by sliding my thumbs deep down between your legs and find the joint between legs and body and with slight pressure slide my fingers up slowly and end somewhere on your butt. I would repeat this about 10 to 15 times.Hopefully, by this time you feel like a puddle or you are laying in one of your own..how goooood for you.
At this point we need a break so you can rest a minute and I get rid of some pressure.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage, secretly in public, risk of being caught

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, uninhibited

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Courtney Cox- all 3 women on TV show BONES, Alicia Keyes Morgan Fairchild Cheryl Ladd <br><br>
Why - all hot

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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