HIM -- 6'5", short salt & pepper hair, bluish eyes HER - 5'4", medium red hair, bluish eyes First off we would like to say this, chat is NOT real, its great to stay in touch with the people you have met, the people you are interested in, a great kick off point, however we NEVER make an invite to spend play time with us in chat, we ALWAYS keep that between us. There is enough gossip and back stabbing out there, we have no interest in being a part of it, so if you have an issue with someone, kindly don't drag us into it, we don't play that game. If you have an issue with us, please bring it to us privately to be settled, we prefer to have lines of communication open at all times and quite frankly this is not Jr. High! We are happily married and still very much in love with each other, even after 16 years, we are not looking to change any part of our life away from here. Please understand that due to our hectic lives (and we do mean hectic between work schedules, sports schedules, general things going on in a life with ren) that we are not always readily available for when someone else may want to play, that does not mean that we cannot or will not make time if the right per comes our way. We do not seek random encounters or quantity over quality, as our windows of availability are only open when the ren are away. This is a firm rule for us, there is no one invited to our home for playtime when the ren are there, you may be invited for a drink or dinner, but it will be just that, please do not disrespect this rule, it will only end badly. We have been learning new things about ourselves and each other that we are looking to explore further, for example Mrs. J has recently learned that she is a squirter (ok more like gusher) so if this is not your thing please move on as it is not a function she can control. We are both experiencing what it is like physically to be in each others shoes, so we are looking for pers who are willing to join us on this part of our journey, but with the understanding that this part is going to take patience from whomever we choose to explore with. Please, please , please, peral hygiene is [B]mandatory[/B], take showers, apply deodorant, brush your teeth (furry teeth are gross) and hair and good lawd please do not bathe in your perfume or cologne as that can be even worse than not bathing, sloppy and smelly is not attractive. Mrs. J does not demand that you are completely bare as she likes a man to look like a man not a prepubescent boy, but manscaping is a MUST! You do not stand a chance at all if you have any kind of disease (STD or otherwise)that could potentially endanger either of us, you may be asked and believe me when we say we do our checking. Condoms are MANDATORY! If you don't play safe, you don't play with us. From time to time we get invites to play separately, while we appreciate the offer [U]we do not play without each other[/U] or if with a couple in separate rooms, its is not only for our safety but dammit why wouldn't you want to be able to to see your partner enjoying themselves? That in itself is a turn on! On occasion single offers will be discussed but unless it is something we both agree on, don't expect it to happen, we are not looking for individual boyfriends girlfriends or side fucks. Right now we are focusing our attention on the good folks that have accepted us for who we are and have maintained an interest during the times where Mrs. J couldn't figure out what exactly she wanted or needed out of this part of our lives, we have a great deal of respect for these individuals (they know who they are). That does not mean that we are not looking to expand our circle, just that if you are a new face/name to us that there will be a wait time as we explore what has always been there waiting for us and get to know you. Also please understand that while Mrs. J enjoys playtime with the right people, her first experiences here were not good ones and that makes her leery about adding anyone new to the mix. You can find one of us at any given time in chat, feel free to send us an email, but don't anticipate a response unless WE (that means both of us) are interested. Alternatively, you can wink or hotlist and we will check out your profile and respond likewise if we are interested.