November 20, 2011 update: All I do on this site is to meet people in per. I do not trade photos, exchange email addresses or phone calls, chat, or cam here. I keep it extremely discreet; we arrange to meet in per, meet, and if we want to go further we get a room to enjoy each other. Simple, safe, and private. My profile is very detailed, and contains far more peral information than most here. You can decide whether you want to meet me based on what I have written here. That is all I am willing to disclose until I meet you in per. My profile is 100% truth and no nonsense, no money or websites involved, and definitely not for just anyone. If you do not believe me please do not contact me. I'm an FTM. That stands for "female to male" transgender. I was BORN FEMALE and am completely female below the belt, lived as a female for 47 years, until I got breast cancer, lost both breasts, and decided to switch gender presentation to pass as a man. It has been a fascinating changeover, I get far more respect in life, and I wouldn't change back for all the tea in China. I may even write a book about this experience. I look like a petite man until I take my clothes off. Otherwise I am 5'5", fit, slim, 128 lb, with short auburn hair, blue eyes, nonsmoker, D&D free, don't drink or use drugs (not comfortable with them, either) My IQ is 160. I find intelligence electrifying. I'm bisexual, in an open relationship with a disabled woman incapable of sex, I am her caregiver in addition to working more than full time. I am looking for a man to take up the slack in my sex life, and have some lighthearted adult fun and escape from responsibilities. Available in the late afternoon and evening. I have an extremely intense sex drive and need someone equally desirous, who is long lasting. I cannot entertain in my apartment. Please don't respond if you cannot host. I'm looking for sane, warm to very hot sex in the context of mutual respect and consideration. If we hit it off long term FWB would be awesome. Your age, race, looks, and socioeconomic level do not matter to me. Intelligence, sensitivity, and sexuality do matter. Connection and chemistry do matter. Kink is fine up to a point; no pain, damage, or body wastes. Thank you for reading my profile. Please respond thoughtfully, and keep in mind that I'm not one of the slew of fakers, spammers, s, gay men pretenders, or time wasters here. I'm a real per, here for fun and relief, not more stress. If you are a suspicious sort of per, please move on to one of the other thousands of ads on this site. I'm not responsible for the negative behavior of others. I just want positive adult fun. If you want the same, and think I might be within your comfort zone, be sure to drop me a line. : I'm cancer free, treatment was successful! Thanks to everyone who send warm, supportive messages. Another new update (Jan 19, 2009): Thanks so much for all the supportive and caring messages so many people have sent me here. They are very much appreciated, along with all the smiles, hugs, and waves from afar. You are awesome. I have decided to do a round of chemotherapy to increase the odds that I will remain cancer free, and just had my first treatment on January 12. It wasn't too bad, there is much better management of side effects than there used to be. But I have a mediport for chemotherapy access implanted on my chest that looks a little weird, and I will be losing my hair over the next 10 days. I always thought bald was hot, on both men and women, so now I will get to find out how it works for me. I will also be immune suppressed during this time, so I have to be extra careful about being in public - it's the smart thing to do. Overall this treatment seems to be manageable, but I will be somewhat erratic in my energy level and it may take me a long time to reply to messages and the like. Please forgive the delay. This will last for at least 6 months, and then to a far lesser degree for another 6, for a total of a year. The last half of the treatment is much less toxic, and my hair should slowly regrow. Please know that I am still out there with you in spirit, enjoying all life has to offer. I wish everyone the very best in all your endeavors, and I hope I will be joining you all very soon again in the flesh, once this treatment is complete. I wish for you inner peace, satisfaction in all aspects of life, and the courage to reach your highest potential. Make every moment count. :) New update (Oct 2008): I have recently received a diagnosis of breast cancer, and have just had a double mastectomy, and so far my condition is looking good. I am healing well. I will likely be changing my gender presentation to male, because I am a butch appearing woman to begin with, and now I am flat chested from my surgery, so I no longer look much like a woman. If you are bisexual or otherwise interested in playing with a sort of gender neutral looking per with female genitalia we might be a match. I wish everyone here the very best in all your endeavors. May you be safe, happy and at peace. For your consideration: I am 47, 5'5", 135 lb., size 8, 34-29-36, fairly athletic, with very short light brown hair (almost a crew cut), blue eyes, glasses, highly intelligent, nonsmoker, D&D free, bisexual, but I have been almost entirely with women partners all my life. I was a very successful massage the for over 20 years, and have always been a very tactile, kinesthetic per, with an intense libido. I am visually sort of an androgynous, boyish looking woman, which appeals very much to women, but to a more select group of men. I hope you might be among them. Perhaps you might be willing to meet me and see whether we have some of that elusive "chemistry" to act upon? I prefer men who are fit and have a very strong libido as I do, who won't run out of steam early. Right now I don't have the time for a traditional relationship, and I do not wish to disappoint anyone, so if you are looking for a long term partner I might not be your first choice of dates. I have a long term life partner who is profoundly disabled after two massive strokes over 11 years, and as her caregiver I only have an occasional evening free to meet anyone. Of course, that is all the more rea I like my all too brief free time to be very well spent! I don't have a picture to post, and cannot entertain at my home, sorry. You would have to take the risk of meeting me sight unseen, so this is only for the courageous. :) If there is chemistry upon our first meeting I don't rule out anything on the first date, and prefer meeting others who are similarly inclined, and open minded. I value a richly exciting and mutually satisfying connection, and see no rea to waste any time getting there. Best of luck to you! I hope to hear from you.

My Ideal Person Respectful, considerate people are always welcome to contact me, and please be friendly and forthright. All races are welcome.

I endeavor to respond to all who contact me with more than a one liner, but please keep in mind that standard members are only allowed to send a small number of emails in a 24 hour period, so even if we have conversed already it may still take me a considerable amount of time to get back to you simply because of Adult Dating One email limitations.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Imagine My Surprise I am a lesbian woman who is quite butch in appearance, and
have almost exclusively been with women all my life. I couldn't
imagine ever having a cock in my pussy for all those years,
and pride myself on going to bed with hundreds of women and
getting them off time and time again like the best of studs,
and, I believed, giveobetter than most men could ever give
them. I am your boss, in charge of managing and correcting you
in your job, something I love to lord over a mere male. You
get fed up with my superiority and decide to throw caution
to the wind and teach me a lesson. One evening while I am forcing you to work late on a project
we end up alone at the office, tired and finally giddy with
relief at completing the job. You are inwardly so incensed
at being required to stay so late that you want something
extra for your efforts, so you hatch a plot to show me what
a real man has to offer a woman. While I have my back turned, you come up behind me and take
both of my wrists in your hard clasp and tell me in my ear to
relax, you are going to teach me something I will never forget.
You are much larger than I am, so despite being alarmed,
I realize quickly that I don't have a chance of getting
away from you, so I acquiesce, while still looking out for
a way to break free and escape. It's not to be. You are prepared with rope and a plan,
and you quickly tie both of my wrists to the legs of my desk,
and tie a gag over my mouth. Then you strip my pantsuit from
my bottom while I try frantically to kick you away, but you
easily counter my attempts, and shortly succeed in spreading
my legs far apart, so I am spread eagled in front of you, totally
exposed and defenseless, and tying them in place. That's
when the real fun begins, as your cock gets rock hard at the
thought of finally getting back at me for all my haughty
treatment of you. My eyes widen in fear as you unzip your pants, and your huge
cock springs out in front of you. My tiny, tight lesbian
pussy, which has never been invaded by a cock before, is
quivering as it dawns on me that a hard, thick cock is going
to be piercing me soon, and I have no idea what to expect it
will feel like. What happens next is totally unexpected and humiliating
for me, a staunchly committed lifelong lesbian. You bring
your huge cock up between my legs, stroking it ever so slowly
and sensually, my eyes following your every move. As it
gets closer to my shaking pussy, a bolt of electricity shoots
through my clit, as if my pussy has a mind of it's own,
and suddenly recognizes that there is a huge hard cock very
close by, and it's as if it has been waiting for this
opportunity for an entire lifetime. It starts tingling
and heating up, swelling and reddening like never before.
The clit is engorged and standing up, as if reaching out
for your big hard cock, so near, and yet so far. I'm so
humiliated that my pussy is disobeying my mind, and is hungering
ravenously for the huge cock in front of it, it cannot wait
to be rammed by it. It starts throbbing and pulsating, taking
over my body, wanting to feel your mushroom head touch it.
You take your hard tool, and wave it immediately before
my hot open pussy, just touching the tip to my straining
clit, reaching out as though your cock was a magnet, drawing
it ravenously toward it. You tell me it's time my pussy had the real thing, and
find out what "good" is, and I would be grateful
afterward. With that statement, my pussy felt like it was
silently screaming to be entered, needing that incredible
cock inside it, it couldn't wait a second longer as
soon as it knew it would be getting hard male cock at last.
You start pressing your weapon in between the lips of my
pussy, and I am horribly embarrassed that a flood of pussy
juice comes cascading out from between the spreading lips,
which part easily for your cockhead. It runs down the crack
of my ass, soaking the floor beneath me. You start pressing
your shaft up into my tiny pussy, stretching it inch by inch
open, it feels like a telephone pole opening me. It hurts,
but my tight wet lesbian pussy wants it even more, the further
in it goes. Against my will, my hips start shaking and pressing
up to meet your big hard cock, struggling to get it further
in. You feel my internal war against the intense pleasure
your big cock is giving my pussy, fighting it while my raging
hot pussy demands it. Once you have forced it all the way
in once, you then start thrusting it in and out of my tight
hole, I feel the weight and power of your anger forcing it
into me, and my pussy explodes with a tremendous orgasm,
convulsing with pleasure and spasming all over your massive
pounding cock. You keep on ramming it in, and my disobedient pussy keeps
cycling into multiple orgasms, like a starving person
gorging on it's first meal. I cannot believe my pussy
is betraying me by cumming over and over seemingly with
every stroke of your cock, stretching me beyond anything
I have ever imagined. Finally, after you are drenched with
my pussy cum spattered all over both of us, you decide it
is time to really teach me a lesson about how good real cock
is, so I will never again fool myself that I am better than
a real cock. I am limp with exhaustion from cumming so many times, but
you have controlled your orgasm so that your cock is harder
and larger than ever, ready to explode and shoot, but waiting
for the right moment. With a warning not to resist, you untie
my wrists and feet, and turn me over, positioning me so that
my ass is high in the air, legs spread, cheeks parted, and
little rosebud of an anus presenting itself, all glistening
with pussy juice. You retie me in place, and I start shaking
and whimpering in fear of having that huge cock force it's
way into my second virginal hole. I don't have to wait
too long before my fears are realized. I feel you place the head of your cock at my ass, rocking back
and forth at the entrance, prying it's way toward entry.
My tense little asshole starts relaxing as the tip presses
onward. I cannot believe how huge it feels, and cannot imagine
getting that monster all the way up me. But my ass knows otherwise,
and starts giving way, surrendering, shocking me with
how much it, too, wants that cock. Here I am, a cocky butch lesbian boss, with my ass in the air
like a ridiculous teenage slut, and my ass is melting with
sexual pleasure as a hard cock starts pistoning inside
it. You start giving it to me in my compliant ass, while my
hungry pussy aches and clutches at the emptiness it now
feels. Your cock goes deeper and deeper, and before I know
it, my ass AND pussy start boiling over and cumming again
and again with every hard thrust. This time you really mean
it, and as you feel my tight anus clutching at your stroking
cock, you let loose with a huge jet of cum, deep inside my
loins. I feel the gushing inside my ass, and cum again, my
frantic pussy and ass spasming around your cock, as if to
suck out every last drop of your cum. And good to your word, it's a lesson my grateful pussy
and ass will never forget.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), A movie theatre, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Leather, Fisting, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I am much more attracted to real people, not Hollywood fakery.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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