I can understand it is hard to find exactly what fits but when you do you do. I have finally figured out how to say what it is that I am looking for. i think i need a few fwb situations where we all play safely and its not 50 different people each week. i have come to a realization that i am missing fun adventuresome opportunities to enjoy life to the fullest by looking for "THE ONE". i have a vast interest in all of lifes facets and i have yet to meet some one who fulfills all that i need to be happy. so i am not looking for him but them. each will be cared about in their own way and we can enjoy each others company for different activities that we enjoy thus we all are happy. if it so happens we all get together to play great but since i tend to pick doms i dont think it would work well. though dinner together might be interesting.......

My Ideal Person I want my men taller than me with some ink but most of all open minded and into kink.
if your a couple, group, or bi hit me up and see what happens.
im not giving you my number until we have met and decided to play.
guys that work out of town that is no issue for me if it isnt for you but you will have to come to me.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
we meet at a bar downtown. we chit chat over drinks not making
any direct comments about sex. we never touch physically
but our eyes have already undressed each other. you offer to walk me to my car. we continue talking and i dont
even realize you have controlled our path to take us down
a small dark deserted alley. you turn our conversation to wanting to see me again and
very happy we could meet up for a drink that evening. you
place your hand on my arm and i stop and turn towards you to
look at your face. you smile slyly and quickly reach out
and seize me by the back of my head by winding your fingers
into my hair. you tip my head back so i arch into you as you
pull me closer against you. i utter a short moan of surprise
and start to struggle and fight. you tell me that i am a dirty
whore and should be fucked in a place that is fitting for
a woman like me. you push me up against the buildings wall
that is closest to you face first and lean against me with
your arm holding my hair. you unzip your pants and pull out
you already hardening cock. as you lift my skirt you notice
i am not wearing any panties. "i knew you were a dirty
whore, you didnt even wear any panties to meet me tonight."
as i fight against what i know will come next you spread my
legs apart by sliding your feet on my instep pushing outwards.
my face pressed against the wall in a dark alley skirt up
around my waist legs spread wide you look at me with the tiny
glow of the street light at the street showing you how wet
i already am. you slide your cock into my dripping pussy
and feel my muscles clench around your pulsing cock inside
me. a low groan escapes your mouth and you press me harder
into the wall. with your free hand you grab my hip so hard
i know there will be marks on me in the morning. you start
thrusting into my cunt feeling me squirm against you. harder
and harder faster and faster till you feel me gush around
your cock that is thrust balls deep in me and feel my juice
run down your legs to drip on the cold asphalt. you can feel
your balls tingle and begin to tighten signaling your about
to cum. you spin me around by my hair and force me to my knees
shoving your dick into my mouth as far as you can making me
gag on it. just as i think i might die with your cock in my throat
you release your load and make me take every last drop you
can stroke out of it. you promptly stand me up by pulling
me to my feet by my hair you release me and straighten my skirt
and zip up you pants. you then make me continue the walk to
my car. once there you kiss me and tell me youll text me later
when you need to use me again.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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